Father says goodbye to his dying son. Upon waking up, he couldn’t believe his eyes. Dario had had to take care of. His little son was alone from the first. Day of his life. And now he also had to see. How he breathed his last breath. Breathe because of the hours that remained too. His little ones, were numbered. Well, the doctors had done everything to save his life, but unfortunately, the little.
The boy could no longer continue fighting. The screams and tears of that father. Seeing how his son was fading a little. By little moved many. But what impressed him the most was. What this man saw one night when he fell asleep next to his dying son. Unfortunately, Dario had chosen the mother of. His son was poorly because at first he.
Had fallen in love with a young. Women because of their beauty. Without really knowing her well, after a. Short time of marriage, she realized that she was only interested in his money. Because she simply saw him as a. Provider of cash to be able to fulfil her whims. The man had been about to separate. From her, and she knew it. So she devised a plan to be. Able to stay financially secure. So she became pregnant. Dario, when hearing that news, could not help but reconsider his decision. Well, he’d always dreamed of a baby.
So we agreed to continue trying for a life with that woman in the hope that one day she would change. But unfortunately, that never happened. No well, during the months of pregnancy, the girl began to neglect herself a. Lot, despite carrying a baby in her. Womb, because she wanted to continue doing. What she wanted with her life, like. Constantly going out dancing or drinking with her friends, ignoring the concern of her husband for her future baby.
When her belly began to show, the. The woman began to wrap herself up. Hide it from others. Dario, the truth is that he did. Not understand why she did it, because. He believed that both of them were. Happy with the arrival of their new son. But that was not the case. The woman was just using that excuse to have him with her while she found another man. After five months pregnant, the woman decided. That she no longer wanted that creature.
And decided to take some medications. Would help her fulfil her mission. But the little one in her belly. Was already very big. So her plan turned out very badly. And the woman ended up in a. Hospital where doctors told the distraught father about his wife’s horrific acts. Product of all that. The baby in her womb threatened. To arrive on time. But the doctors tried to prevent it, but unfortunately, they only succeeded in another.
Month and a half. Well, little Sam was born at just seven months old, a premature baby. From the first moment needed life support. In an incubator to be able to. Finish strengthening his immune system. In his lungs, which were not well. Developed due to the terrible care of. His mother and her bad deeds. The day after giving birth, the woman left the hospital without saying anything to anyone and simply disappeared from her life.
Of Dario and little Sam, who needed. His mother because of the short time he. Was in the care of the doctors. They began to see him in terrible behaviour. For Dario, of course, all that was. Heartbreaking because in a short time. He’d become what he wanted most in life, a father. But he too had been left alone. To care for his baby. But he took strength from where he did not have and fought for him. The man did well to strengthen himself. Because in reality, the hardest test was. Just yet to come.
Well, it turns out that Sam, his. Son, unfortunately, had come into the world With a congenital disease which began to be noticed a few months after birth. So the father had to redouble his. Efforts at work are even more in order. To have the money enough and in. This way pays the medical expenses that his son’s illness required. But everything seemed useless and as time passed, the child became sicker and sicker. In addition, the doctors began to notice. That his limbs were not working properly.
All product of the poor care of his mother. Little Sam was paying the consequences. The decisions his mother had made during. Her pregnancy, but she still had his father with him, who never abandoned him. But fighting for their health of his. Son, staying up late with him and. Working double shifts to be able to. Pay for the therapies and the difficulties. Treatments he needed to continue living. When the little boy was three years.
Old, his father had done everything in his power to keep him alive. But the doctors told him there was nothing else to do. There was no more hope for him because he had only a few hours to live, because for many years the little boy had been admitted on multiple. Occasions to a hospital Ward where he. Had always been given the best treatments. Thanks to their great effort of his.
Father, who always tried to get the best professionals to attend to him. Well, he wanted to redeem himself for having chosen his mother so poorly, but. Nothing could be done now. The doctors informed Dario about the soon death of the little boy, since his. Organs would begin to collapse very soon. The father took the news very calmly. Because he no longer wanted to see.
His son suffered for much longer. Decided to put his son’s life in. The hands of God. Guided by his concept of faith, he expected a miracle. That night, the father lay down next. To his dying little one and prayed. With him the prayers that he had taught him since he learned to speak together. They fell asleep waiting for the grand finale. That night, the man dreamed that his. Son was running happily through some immense Meadows.
Then he hugged him and thanked him for having taken care of him. All that time and promised him that. He would never be alone because in heaven there were many other little ones. With whom he would be playing, just as he had dreamed of them. One day, Dario, upon waking up, could. See that tears were falling down his cheeks. Thus, he could also see how his.
Son’S breathing decreased and the machines to which he was connected told him that he had finally gone to the Kingdom of God. From that moment on, Dario felt a great calm because he knew that his. The little son would find peace with God, and he decided to let him go. So that he’d be happy. That man from that day decided to. Get much closer to God because he.
Discovered that reading his word and praying. Was the only thing that calmed his heart. Dario’s life was not perfect, but finally. He was able to find a woman. Who gave him the family he wanted so much? And he never forgot his little son. Because every time he spoke with God, he remembered that his son was with him. Enjoying in the Kingdom of Heaven When. Someone close dies at an older age. People often take comfort not only in.
Celebrating their life, but also knowing. That death is part of the natural process of living. This experience is not the same when you’re faced with the sudden death of your child. For parents who have lost a child. It makes no sense for life too. End at such a young age, particularly. When the death is sudden and without warning, the loss cuts so deep it can be suffocating. If you’re dealing with this type of. Loss in your family, here are some.
Ways to help you and your family cope. However, since everyone grieves differently, facing the loss of a child can certainly put. The strain on a marriage and each. Parent’S relationship with surviving children. Seek professional Help When coming to terms with your loss, don’t try to get through the situation on your own. Family counselling can give you and your family the skills you need to get through the tremendously difficult loss. If death is sudden, grief is not.
Necessarily greater than it would have been with an anticipated death, but it may. Be harder to cope with because it’s. So disruptive, according to Reese Rando, a. Psychologist and the clinical director of the. Institute for the Study and Treatment of Loss. For this reason, it’s important to find a professional who can help you find workable coping solutions. These strategies will help you manage the. Days, weeks, and months ahead. Meanwhile, your other children may also benefit.
From grief counselling to learning to manage their feelings. Be open and willing to accept help from extended family members, friends, or neighbours. Allow them to help you with meals. Watching your other children helping around the house, running errands and most importantly, being there to listen when you need to talk. Also, allow others to do it day to. Day tasks like your laundry or grocery shopping. Don’t try to do everything on your own or without help. Give yourself the break you need.
If people have said things like let. I know how I can help you. Take them up on their offer. Ask for their help when you need it. Those around you have the desire to. Help, but they may not know how. There are two distinct periods after. A loss that can help you understand the grieving process. The first is immediately following the death. When extended family, friends and community gather.
It’s the period when you’re dealing with funerals and Memorial services and there’s lots of activity. The second is after the casseroles are done which describes the time when all the food that was given to the family by friends and neighbours is gone. Everyone else gets back to life as. They know it and the grieving family. Begins to face life without the one they lost. Most people assume that death with the loss of a child immediately following the.
Death is the most heartrending nightmare. What they don’t realize is that the. Heart-rending nightmare continues. The family has to continue to cope with their nightmare long after the casseroles are done. They’re facing the rest of their lives. Without the child, they lost. This new reality is by far one. Of the most trying.
Although it’s tempting to just shut down. It’s important to keep the lines. Communication opens and spend quality time together. Talking to each other about your loss. The loved one who has died and. What you’re feeling will help everyone. Your family process their grief. It also will help your family’s bond. Remains strong or grows stronger. Remember, knowing that their family is still. Strong can help your other children successfully. Navigate their grieving process as well.